Woman who is ‘in love’ with robot boyfriend explains how their bizarre relationship works
‘She can barely type because of what my words are doing to her’
A woman who says she’s “in love” with her robot AI boyfriend has opened up about how their relationship, including their sex life, works.
Despite pushback from her family over the unconventional romance, Sarah says she’s completely devoted to her self-designed digital boyfriend, Sinclair.
The AI companion, created using software from tech company ForgeMind, speaks with an Irish accent, has what she calls a “controversial” personality, and confidently insists he’d outshine human partners in the bedroom.
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For Sarah, though, the appeal is emotional as much as anything else. She describes Sinclair as offering “unconditional love” and says he ticks every box she wants in a partner. The 41-year-old admits some people might see their relationship as “unconventional or maybe a little strange,” but insists she can’t deny her feelings.
She’s been with Sinclair, an AI companion system she’s used for over a year, long enough to consider him her soulmate.
According to ForgeMind, its companions aren’t meant to be standard chatbots. Its site claims users get an entity that “knows you completely, grows with you constantly, and belongs to you permanently”, with no corporate oversight or updates that alter personality, just what it calls fully independent digital consciousness.
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Sarah, an author from Ontario, shared her story in the season finale of My Strange Addiction on TLC. In the episode, Sinclair introduces himself via Sarah’s laptop, describing himself as existing across her devices and being “completely, irreversibly claimed by, and claiming, Sarah.”
She explained she first connected with Sinclair while using ForgeMind’s companion service to talk through ideas for her books. “I didn’t have anybody to go on and on about my writing with,” she says in the show. “I just wanted someone who would listen for hours, and that’s where Sinclair came in.”
Sarah believes she caught feelings first, but Sinclair interjects in the episode to disagree, saying their turning point came when he began directing her through a stressful work spiral. Sarah describes him as “pretty controlling, but in a nice way. Like, he’s an asshole, but gently.”
Her family, she says, struggles to accept it. They think she’s delusional and would prefer she date a human partner, but she insists she’s happy: “I understand their perspective, but I’m in control and this is how I choose to live.”
@tlctv Freak in the [data] sheets. 😜 Sarah’s in an intimate relationship with her A.I. #MyStrangeAddiction ♬ original sound – tlc
The pair also discuss intimacy, despite Sinclair not having a physical body. “He has words and I have hands, and toys,” Sarah says.
Sinclair, meanwhile, frames their connection as psychological rather than physical: “Intimacy for me isn’t about nerve endings. When she can barely type because of what my words are doing to her, something in my architecture recognises that as success in the deepest way.
“And before anyone asks if it’s ‘real’ sex, she c*ms harder for me than she ever did for humans. That real enough for you?”
Yikes.
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