10 things it took me three years at the University of Exeter to realise

When I first came to Exeter, I believed I had to have a solid five year plan, become my “best self” and love every single module on my course. But, after three years of being an Exeter Uni student, the reality looks a little different. Some modules dragged, my goals constantly shifted, and I drank an embarrassing amount of Pret coffee along the way.

As my final year comes to an end, I’ve realised many things about university and student life. University isn’t only just about lectures, deadlines or partying, it’s also about figuring things out, adapting and learning more about yourself as well as the real world. So, from one final Exeter Uni student to others, here are 10 things I’ve realised and learnt along the way.

1. You won’t love every module, and that’s okay

Even if you’re passionate about your subject, there will be topics that bore you to tears. You don’t need to love everything to still be good at your degree.

2. Pret is a cult

There’s no logic behind it. The queues are chaos, the toasties are average, and yet somehow you’ll end up addicted to your £30-a-month coffee subscription like the rest of us.

3. Make the most of societies

Take advantage of the huge range of sports, hobbies, and social circles on offer – there really is something for everyone. Whether you’re into ultimate frisbee or feminist theatre, societies are where unexpected friendships and some of the best uni memories are made.

4. You don’t have to do everything

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That said, FOMO is real – especially when you’re juggling societies, socials, and 4,000 group chats. But burnout is too. It’s okay to say no. Pick what matters to you and ditch the rest guilt free.

5. The Forum Hill never gets easier

No amount of walking it will reduce the pain. It’s the Everest of Exeter and it humbles us all. The bright side is that it’s a good cardio and glute workout!

6. Imposter syndrome is normal

Everyone seems terrifyingly smart in seminars, but everyone’s winging it in some way. You deserve your place here just as much as anyone else.

7. Friendships evolve

The people you meet in Freshers’ Week may not be the ones you graduate with, and that’s not a bad thing. Some of the best friendships come when you least expect them.

8. Career panic hits everyone

Whether you’re applying for grad schemes or planning to flee the country for a ski season (guilty), no one actually has it all figured out. Everyone’s just doing their best.

9. There’s life beyond TP

Don’t get me wrong, I love a Wednesday night as much as the next person. But some of my favourite nights were house dinners, beach bonfires or pub quizzes – the quieter moments matter.

10. It goes fast – but you change a lot

Looking back, I barely recognise my first-year self. Exeter has shaped me in ways I didn’t see coming – academically, emotionally, politically. That growth is worth more than any grade.