
He’s a man of mystery on Vanderpump Rules, so who actually is Paulo?
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The first episode of Vanderpump Rules has released and the drama is already coming in thick and fast, especially concerning the mysterious Paulo, who’s Natalie’s ex. So who actually is this man?
During the first episode, Natalie told Lisa Vanderpump: “Paulo and I broke up three months ago, and we never had any separation, which is fine, it’s what happens when you date someone you work with.”
Lisa then clapped back: “You came here on your night off. That’s a night for separation,” Lisa points out. “And then you went after him. I’ve seen the table. You were relentless.”

As Paulo doesn’t appear on Vanderpump Rules and his face is blurred during the episode we can’t immediately see what he looks like, but thanks to some sleuthing we now know what he looks like.
According to Swooon, Paulo is 53 year old Paulo Gorsee who works at Sur alongside being a DJ.

Natalie explained on Vanderpump Rules that he’s “very private about everything,” with Paulo having a private Instagram account.
As for how long Natalie and Paulo were dating for, it looks as though they split at the start of the year, as filming for the new season started in April.

The pair were definitely together towards the end of 2024, as he shared a picture of the two celebrating Thanksgiving together on his Threads account.
It looks like he might have moved on though, as he’s bee sharing a lot of pictures with a mystery woman on his Threads account.
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