Erika Kirk addresses JD Vance relationship as body language experts unpack ‘intimate’ viral hug

Twitter has been heavily debating the friendship between Charlie Kirk’s widow, Erika, and the Vice President of the United States, JD Vance.

Following the murder of her husband, right-wing political commentator Charlie Kirk, Erika has been front and centre in the Turning Point USA movement. She’s become a figurehead for the political right, being up close and personal with Donald Trump, JD Vance, and other prominent figures in the Republican party.

Though people have long analysed her interactions with the commander-in-chief and his deputy, the speculation ramped up on October 29. During an apperence at the University of Mississippi, which was celebrating Erika’s appointment as Turning Point CEO, Erika got incredibly close to the vice president whilst comparing him to her late husband.

“When our team asked my dear friend, Vice President JD Vance, to speak today, I really prayed on it, because obviously it’s a very emotional, emotional day,” she said.

“But I could just hear Charlie in my heart. I could just hear him say, ‘Go reclaim that territory, babe. Go. The battle’s already won. God’s love conquers.’ No one will ever replace my husband, but I do see some similarities of my husband in JD – in Vice President JD Vance. I do. And that’s why I am so blessed to be able to introduce him tonight.”

JD Vance entered the stage and embraced the widow, but the hug seemed to last a lifetime as he rested his hand on her hips and she ran her hand through his hair.

There’s a lot of controversy over this hug between Erika Kirk and JD Vance.

Imagine being outraged over a 2.5 second hug between friends?

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It ignited a wave of speculation, with Erika alluding to the moment in an interview with Fox News. She pointed out that everyone is overanalysing her behaviour after her husband’s death, arguing that the same level of attention should be paid to Tyler Robinson’s murder trial.

She said: “There were cameras all over my husband when he was murdered. There have been cameras all over my friends and family mourning. There have been cameras all over me, analysing my every move, analysing my every smile, my every tear. We deserve to have cameras in there.”

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A body language expert analysed JD Vance and Erika Kirk’s hug

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Speaking to HuffPost, body language expert Traci Brown described Erika running her hand through JD Vance’s hair as “A super-intimate move, but beyond that, it controls his attention — so, she’s controlling what he’s looking at.

“His hands drop to her hips, and that is not formal, and that is, in many instances, not appropriate. However, it’s what they’re doing.”

Nonverbal communication expert Patti Wood also clocked Erika “pulling him in closer” by “tightening” and “curling” her fingers through his hair.

A third expert, Karen Donaldson, pointed to the hidden meaning behind their movements:  “It suggests, or signals, she’s comfortable. And there’s some type of familiarity there. He’s familiar to her as well. They’re facing each other directly and they are in each other’s intimate space — and what I want to say about that is it’s mutual, because no one’s pulling away.”

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