Day trips, cute cafés and pubs: 10 of the best spots to take your date out in Durham

When tasked finding the best date spots in Durham, I turned to Snapchat, Instagram, and friends for their top picks. From cosy dinners to scenic walks, Durham has it all. After filtering out a few, shall we say, “creative” suggestions from friends (no need to name names), here’s the ultimate guide to where you should take that special someone.

Special thanks to the “CHADS, CHADS, CHADS” Snapchat group for helping me compile this list.

1) Spags

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First up: Spags! A go-to for Durham students, especially for those of us who believe pasta should be a daily essential. Conveniently located near the Bailey colleges, Spags offers great food in a relaxed setting that is ideal for a no-pressure date. The vibe? Comfortable yet stylish. And, if things go well, you’re only a short walk upstairs to Fabio’s.

2) Fabio’s bar and nightclub

Speaking of Fabs, this place has earned its rep for a reason. The central location, upbeat music, and affordable prices make it a winning choice for students. Fabs keeps the night lively with themed nights and a friendly crowd, setting up a fun, light-hearted environment perfect for unwinding mid-date or after dinner. Plus, it’s the ultimate place to test if your music tastes click.

3) Other Bar Options: Drunken Duck, Katie O’Brien’s, and Fowlers

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If Fabs isn’t your vibe, try out the music at Drunken Duck or Katie O’Brien’s. Or, if you’re in the mood for some “singing” of your own, head to Fowlers karaoke bar near Leonard’s for a little duet action. Just remember, it’s all about the fun, not the vocals.

4) Bar 33

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For a more upscale vibe, Bar 33 is the move. Tucked away off North Road, Bar 33 is accessed through a secret code which can be found on their Instagram, adding a bit of mystery to your night. With an impressive cocktail menu, Bar 33’s got the perfect drinks for a classier date. The only caveat? Prices here are for those who don’t mind a splurge — splitting the bill is practically a given!

5) Cat Café

I haven’t tried Cat Café myself, but word has it this is the go-to for a unique date. Cuddle up with adorable cats and sip a coffee while you chat — it’s a purr-fect way to bond over furry friends and get a dose of cuteness overload. It’s casual, laid-back, and let’s be honest, a very wholesome date.

6) Riverview Kitchen

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If you fancy brunch with a view, Riverview Kitchen is the way to go. Overlooking the Wear, it serves up the ideal morning date. Eating here is like a two-for-one deal: great food and stunning scenery. Just be careful not to fall in love with the view more than your date.

7) Old Durham Gardens Walk

Old Durham Gardens is a personal favourite (whether it’s a date or not). This serene path has picturesque views and plenty of conversation spots. It’s an easy 45-minute stroll but can turn into a longer adventure if you get lost in conversation. Isn’t that what dates are all about, though?

8) Observatory Hill (Freshers) and Wharton Park (Non freshers)

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Observatory Hill is a Durham classic. Whether it’s sunrise, sunset, or a post-library trip, this spot has killer views and an easy-going vibe for a casual date. Pro-tip: after your college ball, head up here for an unforgettable end to the night. And don’t worry if you missed out your first year; the time will come to snap that perfect hilltop photo!

If you’re after something a bit more off the radar, Wharton Park offers incredible views of the Cathedral and an unbeatable romantic atmosphere. You both just need to find it first.

9) Lane 7 Bowling

Not everyone wants a romantic dinner, and Lane 7 has you covered with a relaxed atmosphere. Bowling is the main draw, but the competitive energy adds a little spark to the night without any of the pressure.

10) Day Trips: Newcastle, Edinburgh, York

If Durham doesn’t have what you’re after, hop on the train to Newcastle, Edinburgh, or York. These cities offer endless options for dates, especially during the Christmas markets.

From Italian classics at Spags to breathtaking Cathedral views, Durham’s date spots truly offer something for everyone. With this ultimate guide in hand, all you’re missing now is the date itself — a small yet crucial detail, as one sharp-eyed Chadsian kindly reminded me when I posed this question. Just remember, these picks are perfect for first dates—or even just a great time out in Durham.

Featured image via Katie Heckels, in-text images via Google Maps