Wisconsin guys spill about their biggest turn offs
And it’s actually pretty eye-opening
When men open up about what can turn them off about women we usually expect to hear body shaming quotes. This time, however, guys spill turn offs that are personal, understandable, and have nothing to do with women’s bodies.
Smep
Smep, a student at UW-Madison said, “Well, she could poop her pants,” when asked what the absolute worst turn off for him would be.
When asked about different personality traits he said, “I would be turned off if she’s very self-centered, or if she’s arrogant, especially if she brags about tons of her accomplishments, like it’s cool if you’re good at things but just be humble.”
Smep claims that, “as far as mannerisms go, loudly chewing is a big one, or mispronouncing words regularly,” are things that really get to him.
Carter
Carter, also a student at UW-Madison, explained the biggest turn of for him correlates to drugs, “I mean, for me personally, it would be drinking or doing drugs.”
When asked about personality traits he said, “If she is being overly self centered, egotistical, or hypocritical.”
Interestingly, Carter associates timeliness with sexiness, “Being late is a huge turn off. Like, if we are going to do something, I expect her to show up on time. In fact being early is sexy.”
He commented on pet names: “Overuse of pet names really gets to me, the worst pet name for me would be babe or baby, I hate it! I don’t know why, but I am not going to call you that, I am not going to forget your actual name and only refer to you by a pet name, that makes me want to throw up.”
Kevin
Kevin, a student at UW-Steven’s Point said, “The biggest turn off for me would be if she didn’t seem invested in the conversation. If they don’t seem interested then they don’t seem interesting.”
Regarding personality he said, “If she were vindictive or manipulative, that would be a big turn off. I’m very much the kind of person who wants to be equals with someone I am in a relationship with, I’m not better than her and she’s not better than me.”
Kevin claims if a girl doesn’t seem comfortable with herself it’d make him uncomfortable.
“If she were to throw on excessive amounts of makeup or try to change the way she looked, I’d be bothered by that because it would make me feel like she wasn’t comfortable around me and that’s all I really want; is for her to be comfortable being her around me.”
When asked about turn offs that could occur on a date he said, “I don’t know, I guess maybe if she punched me in the dick…that might be a turn off.”
Kevin then pondered what the most unattractive food to eat might be, “If she were scooping peanut butter with her hands, that might be kind of unattractive because I don’t like peanut butter. I think its only a problem if she’s just like scooping it from the jar with her hands and not even licking her fingers so there’s just wet peanut butter dripping from her hands and around her mouth, that would be kind of gross, and I don’t think I would like that very much.”
The moral of the story is to not worry about what might turn off a guy. He will appreciate you for being you if he is really worth it. It might be cliche, but these honest guys proved it themselves; just be yourself and he will appreciate that.