{"id":5590,"date":"2017-09-27T20:04:30","date_gmt":"2017-09-27T19:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/babe.net\/?p=14722"},"modified":"2025-02-07T17:06:29","modified_gmt":"2025-02-07T17:06:29","slug":"this-is-why-youre-repulsed-the-minute-they-start-to-like-you-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2017\/09\/27\/this-is-why-youre-repulsed-the-minute-they-start-to-like-you-back\/","title":{"rendered":"This is why you\u2019re repulsed the minute they start to like you back"},"content":{"rendered":"

"The chase" is the most common phrase when it comes to dating. It's all about "the chase" and trying to catch someone. But then this thing happens where the minute the person we're chasing admits to liking us, we freak out. <\/p>\n

We think we're repulsed by their newfound neediness or desperation but the truth is, we're repulsed by them being vulnerable and asking us to do the same. <\/p>\n

We're repulsed because of our own intimacy issues \u2014 it has nothing to do with the other person.<\/p>\n

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Do you ever start to like someone and then when they start to like you back get scared and stop liking them or is that just me<\/p>\n

— annmarie\ud83c\udf4d (@annmatweet) September 13, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n