{"id":50289,"date":"2026-04-02T13:51:04","date_gmt":"2026-04-02T12:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/?p=50289"},"modified":"2026-04-02T17:32:24","modified_gmt":"2026-04-02T16:32:24","slug":"john-blamed-age-gap-but-age-of-attractions-theresa-exposes-a-different-reason-for-split","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/04\/02\/john-blamed-age-gap-but-age-of-attractions-theresa-exposes-a-different-reason-for-split\/","title":{"rendered":"John blamed age gap, but Age of Attraction&#8217;s Theresa exposes a different reason for split"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone was left pretty shocked after <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/tag\/age-of-attraction\/\">Age of Attraction<\/a>\u2019s Theresa and John confirmed their breakup just six months after the experiment, and although he had already shared his version of the reason behind it, Theresa has now offered a different explanation for their split. So, here\u2019s what actually happened.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/03\/27\/all-the-drama-between-age-of-attractions-john-and-theresa-that-led-to-their-huge-break-up\/\">John has been very open about how he sees things<\/a>, and for him, the age gap was a major factor. Speaking to <a href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/age-of-attraction-theresa-and-john-cite-different-reasons-for-their-split-exclusive-11937961\">Entertainment Weekly<\/a>, he said, \u201cWe are not together, and age was the factor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He added that things changed once they started dating properly after filming. He explained, \u201cShe just felt weird vibes when we were going out. We [dated] for, like, six months after the show, and she just couldn&#8217;t take the &#8230; I figure, you know, you make a big deal out of [the age gap], it&#8217;s a big deal. I felt the whole time that age wasn&#8217;t a big deal unless she made it a big deal. It got to us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He also told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QvQ6bVrgAnw\">DC Film Girl<\/a>, \u201cUnfortunately, once we got into the real world, it [age] became an issue and it broke us up.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>On top of that, he claimed on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ovxbzyaMyRg&amp;list=PLwuvO7QnbpjjDLP72cS5nB-Mpavk5MEHz&amp;index=2\">Viall Files<\/a> that he \u201cdoesn\u2019t deserve someone who texts him saying they feel disgusting when they\u2019re with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Now, Theresa has spoken out and her reason is quite different<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_50294\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-50294\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-50294 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AAAAQZcnF3L1h3RPl8ZkEvm-lYps_XtUdJIj5XUqHP5ipsivJp6pIj9vGqUR052L4CnfMnq5quHyrR-E72kgh7k3whRnNxQSRRHTAAVZTDIf5J9uBGrLOJwOz1Y9xs3M4lakek5xDne41Q_8JhkdSsFuzPrUfNs-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Age of Attraction Theresa John split different reason\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AAAAQZcnF3L1h3RPl8ZkEvm-lYps_XtUdJIj5XUqHP5ipsivJp6pIj9vGqUR052L4CnfMnq5quHyrR-E72kgh7k3whRnNxQSRRHTAAVZTDIf5J9uBGrLOJwOz1Y9xs3M4lakek5xDne41Q_8JhkdSsFuzPrUfNs-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AAAAQZcnF3L1h3RPl8ZkEvm-lYps_XtUdJIj5XUqHP5ipsivJp6pIj9vGqUR052L4CnfMnq5quHyrR-E72kgh7k3whRnNxQSRRHTAAVZTDIf5J9uBGrLOJwOz1Y9xs3M4lakek5xDne41Q_8JhkdSsFuzPrUfNs-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AAAAQZcnF3L1h3RPl8ZkEvm-lYps_XtUdJIj5XUqHP5ipsivJp6pIj9vGqUR052L4CnfMnq5quHyrR-E72kgh7k3whRnNxQSRRHTAAVZTDIf5J9uBGrLOJwOz1Y9xs3M4lakek5xDne41Q_8JhkdSsFuzPrUfNs-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/04\/AAAAQZcnF3L1h3RPl8ZkEvm-lYps_XtUdJIj5XUqHP5ipsivJp6pIj9vGqUR052L4CnfMnq5quHyrR-E72kgh7k3whRnNxQSRRHTAAVZTDIf5J9uBGrLOJwOz1Y9xs3M4lakek5xDne41Q_8JhkdSsFuzPrUfNs.jpg 1201w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-50294\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Theresa pointed more towards distance and communication issues rather than just age. She said, \u201cLong distance is really, really hard on a relationship, regardless of age or anything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She added, \u201cSo that was certainly a challenge for us. We had some communication issues. There were some things that came up \u2014 some miscommunications.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, speaking on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DWoYVoyDj1k\/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==\">Fire Chats: The Mindfire Pod<\/a>, Theresa also opened up about a specific moment that really affected her during their relationship. She said, \u201cSo about three weeks after we finished filming, we were in New York. And as I say on the reunion, we had drinks with his sister and another cast member. And they&#8217;re all significantly younger than me. They&#8217;re either in their early 30s. Obviously, we know John&#8217;s 27.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She continued, \u201cAnd I also know that John&#8217;s sister is not the biggest fan of mine. I think she thought that I was high maintenance and a little shady for not being forthright with telling them about my kids and my age and stuff at our lunch, when actually that was just a misunderstanding.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Theresa went on to explain how the situation made her feel. She said, \u201cBut at that, at the time when we were having drinks, they were definitely, I felt like really trying to keep me out of the conversation while talking about like age-related things that had to do with like their age group, and it was isolating to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She added, \u201cAnd I just had a really horrible feeling when I left that situation. And I was supposed to go out to dinner with John and his sister. I declined, went back to the hotel, and I just kind of spiralled.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Theresa also admitted, \u201cAnd I&#8217;m, you know, I&#8217;m not gonna lie, obviously dealing with somebody who is that huge of an age difference, like it had weighed on me the entire time of our relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Reality Shrine<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" 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