{"id":46617,"date":"2026-02-20T14:28:37","date_gmt":"2026-02-20T14:28:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/?p=46617"},"modified":"2026-02-20T14:28:37","modified_gmt":"2026-02-20T14:28:37","slug":"chris-ex-girlfriend-shares-disturbing-voicemail-she-received-from-him-before-love-is-blind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/02\/20\/chris-ex-girlfriend-shares-disturbing-voicemail-she-received-from-him-before-love-is-blind\/","title":{"rendered":"Chris&#8217; ex girlfriend shares disturbing voicemail she received from him before Love Is Blind"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Marta Stelmaszyk is claiming she&#8217;s resident Love Is Blind red flag Chris&#8217; ex girlfriend, and <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/2026\/02\/16\/my-pure-chaos-ex-is-on-love-is-blind-right-now-but-he-forgot-to-break-up-with-me-first\">she&#8217;s been speaking out about their relationship online<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Marta previously claimed that she&#8217;d\u00a0been dating Chris in the lead-up to him going on Love Is Blind, claiming: &#8220;We actually started dating before he went on the show, and then I continued dating him after\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@agirlandherwheatie\/video\/7606751596029971726\" data-video-id=\"7606751596029971726\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@agirlandherwheatie\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@agirlandherwheatie?refer=embed\">@agirlandherwheatie<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Should I keep going \ud83d\udc40 \ud83c\udf75 <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp?refer=embed\">#fyp<\/a> <a title=\"exbf\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/exbf?refer=embed\">#exbf<\/a> <a title=\"loveisblind\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/loveisblind?refer=embed\">#loveisblind<\/a> <a title=\"columbus\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/columbus?refer=embed\">#columbus<\/a> <a title=\"teatime\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/teatime?refer=embed\">#teatime<\/a> <\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Marta\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7606751702280047373?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Marta<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>She continued, alleging: &#8220;Let me introduce you to my ex-boyfriend: Chris. He claims he\u2019s 5\u20198, but I\u2019m not here to argue with delusions. Are you in the market for a short white guy who is a walking red flag, and thinks he\u2019s god\u2019s gift because he owns two pairs of designer sneakers?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then step right up, cuz Chris is your man. Features include: Horrendous communication skills, will ghost you mid-sentence and reappear like nothing happened.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And now Chris&#8217; alleged ex girlfriend has appeared on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ztzms52Uqhk\">Reality Steve podcast<\/a>, and shared a disturbing voicemail she claims is from him. For context, she says this was before Thanksgiving and at the time he&#8217;d been repeatedly calling her but she wasn&#8217;t picking up, so his message went to voicemail.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DU9N7w-GfCR\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DU9N7w-GfCR\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Steve Carbone (@realitysteve)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\nThe alleged voicemail from Chris said: &#8220;This is interesting, shall I leave a message. I just spend $900 at dinner tonight, and it&#8217;s so funny like do you trust people you&#8217;re with or not, like you hang out with random b*tches, and it&#8217;s like yeah I do that all the time but how much do you trust them?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s like, oh you never know. I&#8217;ll be safe tonight, call me back when you want, go f*ck yourself, you might be blocked I don&#8217;t know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>Reality Shrine has reached out to Chris for comment.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Reality Shrine<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Facebook<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He boasted about spending $900 on one dinner<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":249734183,"featured_media":46631,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1358],"tags":[1528,1438],"class_list":["post-46617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-love-is-blind","tag-netflix"],"acf":[],"parsely":{"version":"1.1.0","canonical_url":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/02\/20\/chris-ex-girlfriend-shares-disturbing-voicemail-she-received-from-him-before-love-is-blind\/","smart_links":{"inbound":0,"outbound":0},"traffic_boost_suggestions_count":0,"meta":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","headline":"Chris&#8217; 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