{"id":44598,"date":"2026-02-02T16:46:29","date_gmt":"2026-02-02T16:46:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/?p=44598"},"modified":"2026-02-02T17:02:56","modified_gmt":"2026-02-02T17:02:56","slug":"natalie-reveals-the-moment-she-realised-love-is-blind-doesnt-actually-work-as-a-concept","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/02\/02\/natalie-reveals-the-moment-she-realised-love-is-blind-doesnt-actually-work-as-a-concept\/","title":{"rendered":"Natalie reveals the moment she realised Love Is Blind doesn&#8217;t actually work as a concept"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"93\" data-end=\"612\">If you needed proof that <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/02\/02\/ranked-the-most-dramatic-love-is-blind-surgery-transformations-of-all-time\/\">Love Is Blind<\/a> alum Natalie Lee is in her \u201cI\u2019m older, wiser, and not sugar-coating it\u201d era, her latest podcast chat delivers.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"93\" data-end=\"612\">On <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=s5kJTQ5rKjo\">Out of the Pods<\/a>, she\u2019s not rehashing old tea for clicks, she\u2019s connecting real-life moments to what the pods promise versus what they actually produce.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"93\" data-end=\"612\">And the spark for her latest hot take wasn\u2019t a viral meme or a messy reunion\u2026 it was a wedding. Specifically, seeing someone she loves find the kind of relationship that just makes sense.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"93\" data-end=\"612\">It may be five years post-show, but Natalie&#8217;s coming through with some newfound wisdom&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"614\" data-end=\"747\">Natalie reflects on <span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Love Is Blind<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_44619\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-44619\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-44619\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Helens-featured-images-89.jpg\" alt=\"natalie love is blind doesn't work\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Helens-featured-images-89.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Helens-featured-images-89-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Helens-featured-images-89-1024x538.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Helens-featured-images-89-768x403.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-44619\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: Out of the Pods YouTube<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-start=\"749\" data-end=\"1176\">Ok, so <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/22\/their-romances-sadly-didnt-last-so-where-are-all-the-divorced-love-is-blind-stars-now\/\">Iyanna McNeely<\/a>, who we all first met on season two, has lived the full Love Is Blind arc<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"749\" data-end=\"1176\">She went from whirlwind pod romance, marriage, and then a public breakup. Iyanna and <span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Jarrette Jones<\/span><\/span> announced their split in 2022 and later finalised their divorce.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1178\" data-end=\"1402\">Fast-forward to now, and Iyanna has remarried. She tied the knot with <span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Alexander Lewis<\/span><\/span> in a winter wedding in Chicago on January 17, 2026, and Natalie was a bridesmaid.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1404\" data-end=\"1752\">That\u2019s the emotional context behind Natalie\u2019s \u201caha\u201d moment.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1404\" data-end=\"1752\">Watching Iyanna in a relationship that looks calm, sure, and genuinely aligned made Natalie reflect on what they all thought love looked like back then, when the pods were new, the stakes were high, and everyone was convinced the connection had to be \u201cthe one\u201d because it felt intense.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1404\" data-end=\"1752\">Speaking on Out of the Pods, Natalie told Deepti Vempati that she just attended Iyanna&#8217;s wedding and found it crazy that she met both Iyanna and Deepti five years ago on Love Is Blind.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1404\" data-end=\"1752\">&#8220;It was so, so magical,&#8221; she said of Iyanna&#8217;s wedding.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"1754\" data-end=\"1796\">She realised Love Is Blind doesn\u2019t work<\/h2>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@natalieminalee\/video\/7597222213279829303\" data-video-id=\"7597222213279829303\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@natalieminalee\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@natalieminalee?refer=embed\">@natalieminalee<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Five years ago we bonded as we helped each other through heartbreak, and now I get to stand by her as she marries her soulmate \ud83e\udd79<\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - \ud835\udc6c\ud835\udc82\ud835\udc94\ud835\udc9a \ud835\udc79\ud835\udc86\ud835\udc97\ud835\udc86\ud835\udc8f\ud835\udc88\ud835\udc86 \u2605\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7324104155132611333?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; \ud835\udc6c\ud835\udc82\ud835\udc94\ud835\udc9a \ud835\udc79\ud835\udc86\ud835\udc97\ud835\udc86\ud835\udc8f\ud835\udc88\ud835\udc86 \u2605<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Giving her opinion about Love Is Blind as a concept, Natalie said: &#8220;It does not work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She continued: &#8220;I know that there are happy couples from the franchise, but I think those are people who just got lucky.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Natalie continued to explain that Iyanna&#8217;s wedding was actually the moment that this all became clear to her.<\/p>\n<p>She said: &#8220;Listen, her being married made me realise the show doesn&#8217;t work&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2067\" data-end=\"2362\">She isn\u2019t claiming love never comes out of the <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/19\/heres-whos-still-together-and-who-broke-up-after-love-is-blind-germany-season-two\/\">Netflix<\/a> show experiment; she\u2019s saying it\u2019s not a reliable system.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2067\" data-end=\"2362\">&#8220;I think the reason why it doesn&#8217;t work is, you&#8217;re choosing one person who best fits you out of 15 men, like that&#8217;s it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2067\" data-end=\"2362\">Deepti then added: &#8220;The pool is small if you think about it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2364\" data-end=\"2731\">The ladies go a step further, and both Natalie and Deepti agree that the type of people who sign up for reality TV shows might not be the best fit for them.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2364\" data-end=\"2731\">Deepti explains how now &#8220;that pool of men&#8221; isn&#8217;t necessarily the type she\u2019d want to marry at her current age and standards. And, Natalie agrees.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2733\" data-end=\"3093\">They even admit the double standard&#8230; they&#8217;ve done a reality show, but she doesn\u2019t want to date a guy who did one.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2733\" data-end=\"3093\">Natalie said: &#8220;I just don&#8217;t want that type of guy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2733\" data-end=\"3093\">Shayne Jansen&#8217;s ex then went on to say how she\u2019s had \u201cregular\u201d corporate-job guys reject her because she was on one, which she says is fair.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2733\" data-end=\"3093\">After seeing Iyanna and Alex together, Natalie said she thought to herself: &#8220;I want that.&#8221; She added: &#8220;I want someone to look at me and my future partner, and think &#8216;this is great, perfect, this is love&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><i>For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\"><span 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