{"id":43457,"date":"2026-01-21T15:14:24","date_gmt":"2026-01-21T15:14:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/?p=43457"},"modified":"2026-01-21T15:14:24","modified_gmt":"2026-01-21T15:14:24","slug":"colleen-reveals-exact-breaking-point-moment-she-and-matt-knew-they-had-to-divorce-after-love-is-blind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/21\/colleen-reveals-exact-breaking-point-moment-she-and-matt-knew-they-had-to-divorce-after-love-is-blind\/","title":{"rendered":"Colleen reveals exact &#8216;breaking point&#8217; moment she and Matt knew they had to divorce after Love Is Blind"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/21\/colleen-finally-reveals-the-heartbreaking-real-reason-she-and-matt-divorced-after-love-is-blind\/\">Colleen has spoken out about the truth<\/a> behind her <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/05\/29\/all-the-signs-love-is-blinds-colleen-and-matt-were-sadly-destined-to-split-from-the-start\/\">unexpected split from Matt<\/a> after the pair got married on Love Is Blind.<\/p>\n<p>During the interview on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@WhatsTheRealityPod\">AD&#8217;s What&#8217;s The Reality Podcast<\/a>, Colleen revealed that she and Matt had actually been separated for six months before publicly announcing it.<\/p>\n<p>She also opened up about the &#8220;breaking point&#8221; between her and Matt was that made them realise their option for them was to split.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_43464\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43464\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43464\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T150551.451.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T150551.451.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T150551.451-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T150551.451-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T150551.451-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-43464\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Colleen explained that she felt she and Matt had different value of what they wanted out of life, explaining that she\u00a0valued \u201cquality time\u201d above all others and she wanted Matt to spend time with her and they never would.<\/p>\n<p>She elaborated: &#8220;I would always initiate date night, and would have loved if he initiated. I want to be courted, and that was definitely lacking, especially towards the end of our relationship. We weren\u2019t growing together, we weren\u2019t working on it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As for what the ultimate &#8220;breaking point&#8221; was for the pair, Colleen emotionally explained: &#8220;I would say we stayed at the lows for a long time, we tried everything, we did everything and when we felt we were at that moment of breaking we\u2019d say, \u2018no I still love you.\u2019 We finally hit that point where we both knew that we just can\u2019t do this anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_43465\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43465\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-43465 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T083645.298-1.png\" alt=\"Matt Colleen Love Is Blind\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T083645.298-1.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T083645.298-1-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T083645.298-1-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-21T083645.298-1-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-43465\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Colleen added that she felt as though the \u201cclock was ticking\u201d biologically but she refused to have kids with Matt until she knew she was \u201cabsolutely in love\u201d with him.<\/p>\n<p>When asked what the \u201csaddest\u201d moment of it all was, Colleen described that the moment they realised they were done and hugged each other that once they let go of that huge they\u2019d also be letting go of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Colleen explained that it wasn\u2019t a relief in that moment that they\u2019d split for her, saying all she felt was the extreme \u201cweight of sadness.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Reality Shrine<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Facebook<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is absolutely heartbreaking <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":249734183,"featured_media":43459,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1358],"tags":[1528,1438],"class_list":["post-43457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-love-is-blind","tag-netflix"],"acf":[],"parsely":{"version":"1.1.0","canonical_url":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/21\/colleen-reveals-exact-breaking-point-moment-she-and-matt-knew-they-had-to-divorce-after-love-is-blind\/","smart_links":{"inbound":0,"outbound":0},"traffic_boost_suggestions_count":0,"meta":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","headline":"Colleen reveals exact &#8216;breaking point&#8217; 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