{"id":42828,"date":"2026-01-14T16:53:37","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T16:53:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/?p=42828"},"modified":"2026-01-14T16:53:37","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T16:53:37","slug":"erika-jayne-speaks-out-on-her-relationship-with-new-boyfriend-john-mcphee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/14\/erika-jayne-speaks-out-on-her-relationship-with-new-boyfriend-john-mcphee\/","title":{"rendered":"Erika Jayne speaks out on her relationship with new boyfriend John McPhee"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"391\" data-end=\"950\">Erika Jayne\u2019s latest love story had <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/07\/here-are-all-the-real-housewives-who-have-shockingly-been-involved-in-cults\/\">Real Housewives<\/a> stans doing a double-take.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"391\" data-end=\"950\">When photos of her holding hands with <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/14\/heres-why-people-are-saying-erika-jaynes-new-man-john-mcphee-is-controversial\/\">John McPhee<\/a> went viral, many wondered if it was just another whirlwind <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/13\/she-likes-confident-intelligent-men-so-who-has-rhobhs-erika-jayne-dated-over-the-years\/\">RHOBH<\/a> fling.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"391\" data-end=\"950\">But in true Erika style, she revealed that she wasn\u2019t just randomly swept off her feet, she knew him long before their first hello!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"391\" data-end=\"950\">Let&#8217;s delve into everything she&#8217;s said about her new romance&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"952\" data-end=\"999\">Erika was interested in John McPhee long ago<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_42837\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-42837\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-42837\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/2-11.jpg\" alt=\"Erika Jayne John McPhee\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/2-11.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/2-11-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/2-11-1024x538.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/2-11-768x403.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-42837\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: YouTube\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-start=\"1001\" data-end=\"1550\">Before the paparazzi shots and mani-pedi date buzz, Erika was already aware of John McPhee because she\u2019d listened to him on podcasts.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1001\" data-end=\"1550\">As she shared on her <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/no-more-love-hotel-rhoc-recap\/id1477524410?i=1000719714799\">Diamonds in the Rough podcast<\/a>, \u201cI saw him on a friend of mine\u2019s podcast because I watch everybody\u2019s podcast late at night before I go to bed,\u201d she said. \u201cI thought, \u2018Wow, that\u2019s an interesting interview.\u2019 Then, I saw him again on another and I thought, \u2018God, that guy\u2019s kind of interesting,\u2019 and I saw him backstage with Heidi in London just randomly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1552\" data-end=\"2058\">That\u2019s right. Erika was basically a low-key fan before any real-life connection happened. And honestly, that feels very Erika Jayne energy.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1552\" data-end=\"2058\">She&#8217;s curious, confident, and not afraid to admit she likes a man\u2019s vibe. <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/09\/hes-rhobh-star-erikas-new-boyfriend-so-what-is-john-shrek-mcphees-estimated-net-worth\/\">John McPhee\u2019s background<\/a>, a retired US Army Special Operations Sergeant Major turned high-profile security pro, isn\u2019t the typical Beverly Hills boyfriend pick. But Erika\u2019s known for choosing her own lane.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"2469\" data-end=\"2509\">She explained how they eventually met<\/h2>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DTa_Qf3inbM\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DTa_Qf3inbM\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by John \u2018Shrek\u2019 McPhee (@sobtactical)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2511\" data-end=\"2927\">So how did the \u201cpodcast recognition\u201d turn into dates?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2511\" data-end=\"2927\">Well, it turns out that the real-life meeting took place in London at a show where both Erika and Heidi Montag were performing.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2511\" data-end=\"2927\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/07\/theyre-from-different-worlds-so-how-did-erika-jayne-and-her-boyfriend-john-mcphee-meet\/\">Erika saw John backstage<\/a>, and the familiarity clicked. She literally realised it was the guy from the podcast.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2511\" data-end=\"2927\">At that moment, she did something bold but iconic, Erika&#8230; she walked right up to him and introduced herself, obviously.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2929\" data-end=\"3248\">Her story, as she recounted it, was casual and confident. She said she simply walked up and said hi, told him her name, and let him know she\u2019d heard him on podcasts.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3250\" data-end=\"3670\">After that initial London interaction, the two didn\u2019t rush into things publicly. Erika later revealed that they went on two dates, including a now-infamous manicure-pedicure outing in Los Angeles that was snapped by paparazzi before she was ready to share the news.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3250\" data-end=\"3670\">She described that simple date as \u201creally nice,\u201d saying she felt comfortable and genuinely enjoyed the time with him.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"3250\" data-end=\"3670\">Erika admitted what attracted her<\/h2>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DR5GEG4Af84\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DR5GEG4Af84\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Erika Jayne (@theprettymess)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2416\" data-end=\"2684\">Speaking to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/erika-jayne-shares-why-rhobh-costars-havent-met-her-new-boyfriend\/\">Us Weekly<\/a>, Erika described John as \u201ccalm\u201d and \u201ccentered,\u201d and said she needs to feel comfortable and peaceful after everything she\u2019s been through.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2686\" data-end=\"2867\">The RHOBH star has also said there were more attractive traits to John: \u201cI like people who are confident and intelligent. I was married to somebody who was really good at their job for a long time\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2869\" data-end=\"3133\">The most telling compliment she keeps repeating is also the simplest. She said he\u2019s a \u201cnice man,\u201d and she feels comfortable with him, comfortable enough to hold his hand in public, even if that turned into a whole thing!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3613\" data-end=\"3860\">And if you\u2019re wondering where things stand now\u2026 Erika told\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bravotv.com\/the-daily-dish\/erika-jayne-shares-rare-details-on-boyfriend-john-mcphee-relationship-update-december-2025-exclusive\">Bravo<\/a>\u00a0in December 2025 that everything was going great, she\u2019d been spending the holidays with him, and that they\u2019d been dating for about six months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><i>For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\"><span class=\"s1\"><b><i>Reality Shrine<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/a><i>\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><a 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