Her former husband, Ralph Brown and her got married in 2010 but ended up getting divorced in 2012.<\/p>\n Amanza revealed on the\u00a0Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast<\/a>\u00a0that prior to his disappearance, he was a \u201cgreat father.\u201d<\/p>\n She explained: \u201cHe was a great father when he was around. He was a very loyal, hands-on, dedicated, interactive father.\u201d<\/p>\n As for the last time her ex husband was seen, Amanza Smith explained to\u00a0E News!<\/a>\u00a0that he vanished during the second season of Selling Sunset whilst doing the school run.<\/p>\n Amanza recalled the very last time she heard from him, explaining: \u201cHe sent me an email, and he said, \u2018my situation isn\u2019t good right now. I can\u2019t financially take care of the children. It\u2019s not safe for them to be with me. You need to keep them until my situation change.’\u201d<\/p>\n However, the Selling Sunset star appeared recently on the\u00a0Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey podcast<\/a>, with Amanza Smith revealing that she now knows more about what happened to her ex husband.<\/p>\n Amanza confirmed that her husband is still alive and that the police recently informed her that they have now found a physical address for her ex husband after five years, and as such he\u2019s no longer \u201cdeemed as a missing person.\u201d<\/p>\n Amanza Smith told Harry more about the circumstances around her ex husband disappearing whilst she was filming Selling Sunset.<\/p>\n She recalled: \u201cSo we got a divorce when the kids were one and two, and then for seven years they would go to their dad for a week and me for a week like clockwork.<\/p>\n \u201cHe was good. He was a good dad, and then he dropped them off at school on a Monday, August 26th, 2019, and never came back and he filed a paper to the courts a few months later relinquishing all rights and responsibilities and we didn\u2019t see that paper for like two and a half years because COVID, and it was like the lockdown.<\/p>\n \u201cThe family courts were closed, so we were like, you know, I was convinced that we could find him and maybe he needed help and it was just a whole, yeah. It was really, it\u2019s been five years. It\u2019ll be six years in August.\u201d<\/p>\n As for how his sudden disappearance affected her, Amanza explained: \u201cYeah, it was really sad. My kids were seven and nine at the time. My son just turned 14 yesterday and my daughter\u2019s 15.\u201d<\/p>\n She also admitted that she still hasn\u2019t had any closure, adding: \u201cNothing. Literally nothing. I mean, he filed a paper to the court writing all these, you know, reasons why he could no longer care for the children.\u201d<\/p>\n For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i>Reality Shrine<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i>Facebook<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" He disappeared after dropping their children off at school in 2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":249734183,"featured_media":41586,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1358],"tags":[1438,1547],"class_list":["post-41584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-netflix","tag-selling-sunset"],"acf":[],"parsely":{"version":"1.1.0","canonical_url":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/01\/selling-sunsets-amanza-reveals-if-her-ex-husband-is-still-alive-as-hes-been-missing-for-six-years\/","smart_links":{"inbound":0,"outbound":0},"traffic_boost_suggestions_count":0,"meta":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","headline":"Selling Sunset\u2019s Amanza reveals if her ex husband is still alive as he’s been missing for six years","url":"http:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/01\/selling-sunsets-amanza-reveals-if-her-ex-husband-is-still-alive-as-hes-been-missing-for-six-years\/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"http:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2026\/01\/01\/selling-sunsets-amanza-reveals-if-her-ex-husband-is-still-alive-as-hes-been-missing-for-six-years\/"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-01T092427.864-150x150.png","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-01T092427.864.png"},"articleSection":"News","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Ellie Ring"}],"creator":["Ellie Ring"],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Reality Shrine","logo":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/cropped-mX3_1x3z.png"},"keywords":["netflix","selling sunset"],"dateCreated":"2026-01-01T09:31:50Z","datePublished":"2026-01-01T09:31:50Z","dateModified":"2026-01-01T09:31:50Z"},"rendered":"![\"\"](\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2026-01-01T092940.484.png\")
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