{"id":40456,"date":"2025-12-15T16:02:50","date_gmt":"2025-12-15T16:02:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/?p=40456"},"modified":"2025-12-16T11:23:46","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T11:23:46","slug":"mormon-wives-demi-faces-backlash-for-blaming-bad-behaviour-on-brother-with-down-syndrome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/12\/15\/mormon-wives-demi-faces-backlash-for-blaming-bad-behaviour-on-brother-with-down-syndrome\/","title":{"rendered":"Mormon Wives&#8217; Demi faces backlash for &#8216;blaming bad behaviour&#8217; on brother with Down syndrome"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mormon Wives&#8217; <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/12\/10\/marciano-reveals-he-was-meant-to-be-on-perfect-match-before-demi-accused-him-of-assault\/\">Demi Engemann<\/a> is getting backlash after revealing she &#8220;couldn&#8217;t take up space&#8221; because her brother, who has Down syndrome, has needs that came first in the family. She opened up in <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/12\/11\/heres-the-tea-after-jen-affleck-allegedly-spilled-mormon-wives-la-spin-off-at-a-party\/\">The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives<\/a> finale about her childhood.<\/p>\n<p>She revealed that her brother had a lot of medical complications, and claimed that her feelings of not wanting to take up space is a \u201ctrauma response.\u201d Demi said: &#8220;People don\u2019t see that struggle and see that battle but that\u2019s been a very real thing for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_blockParagraph__I2kr4\">Demi also referred to it as \u201cGlass Child Syndrome.\u201d A \u201cglass child\u201d refers to a sibling of someone with disabilities or a chronic illness. It\u2019s called \u201cglass\u201d not because they\u2019re fragile but because they can feel as if they\u2019re see-through or made of glass.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@demilucymay_\/video\/6773016439298198789\" data-video-id=\"6773016439298198789\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@demilucymay_\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@demilucymay_?refer=embed\">@demilucymay_<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Never trust a man with an extra chromosome \ud83e\uddd0 <a title=\"downsyndrome\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/downsyndrome?refer=embed\">#downsyndrome<\/a> <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp?refer=embed\">#fyp<\/a> <a title=\"foryou\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/foryou?refer=embed\">#foryou<\/a> <a title=\"foryoupage\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/foryoupage?refer=embed\">#foryoupage<\/a> <a title=\"happiness\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/happiness?refer=embed\">#happiness<\/a> <a title=\"lucky\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/lucky?refer=embed\">#lucky<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c Lalala - Y2K &#038; bbno$\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Lalala-6699935602407639814?refer=embed\">\u266c Lalala &#8211; Y2K &#038; bbno$<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>People are now criticising Demi for what they believe is her blaming her behaviour on her brother&#8217;s condition. One person said: &#8220;She is looking for any way out to shift the blame from herself- she is not above throwing anyone under the bus to distract the negativity off her.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Another wrote: &#8220;Growing up with someone with disabilities, she should\u2019ve learn empathy and compassion, and she lacks both\u2026&#8221; However, someone else said: &#8220;I actually think she is allowed to speak about her own experience regarding being neglected.&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@demilucymay_\/video\/6773016439298198789\" data-video-id=\"6773016439298198789\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@demilucymay_\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@demilucymay_?refer=embed\">@demilucymay_<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Never trust a man with an extra chromosome \ud83e\uddd0 <a title=\"downsyndrome\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/downsyndrome?refer=embed\">#downsyndrome<\/a> <a title=\"fyp\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fyp?refer=embed\">#fyp<\/a> <a title=\"foryou\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/foryou?refer=embed\">#foryou<\/a> <a title=\"foryoupage\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/foryoupage?refer=embed\">#foryoupage<\/a> <a title=\"happiness\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/happiness?refer=embed\">#happiness<\/a> <a title=\"lucky\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/lucky?refer=embed\">#lucky<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c Lalala - Y2K &#038; bbno$\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Lalala-6699935602407639814?refer=embed\">\u266c Lalala &#8211; Y2K &#038; bbno$<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Demi posts TikTok videos about her brother, including one where she wrote: &#8220;Checking to see if my brother has Down syndrome or if he&#8217;s faking it to avoid paying rent, continue to have cute girls take him to do fun things, and forever be treated like the baby of the family.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She also has an older sister, but rarely talks about her family. Now, she&#8217;s got her own family-of-five, including her husband, <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/12\/02\/bret-enegemann-was-originally-cast-on-the-bachelorette-so-heres-what-happened\/\">Bret Engemann<\/a>, and three children, stepsons Cole and Rome, and her eldest daughter, Maude, from a previous marriage.<\/p>\n<p><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Reality Shrine<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Facebook<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She called her actions a &#8216;trauma response&#8217;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":249734182,"featured_media":40475,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1358],"tags":[1671,1883],"class_list":["post-40456","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","tag-hulu","tag-the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives"],"acf":[],"parsely":{"version":"1.1.0","canonical_url":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/12\/15\/mormon-wives-demi-faces-backlash-for-blaming-bad-behaviour-on-brother-with-down-syndrome\/","smart_links":{"inbound":0,"outbound":0},"traffic_boost_suggestions_count":0,"meta":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","headline":"Mormon Wives&#8217; 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