{"id":35054,"date":"2025-10-07T12:22:49","date_gmt":"2025-10-07T11:22:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/?p=35054"},"modified":"2025-10-07T12:25:51","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T11:25:51","slug":"a-therapist-just-broke-down-the-most-alarming-red-flag-of-love-is-blind-so-far","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/10\/07\/a-therapist-just-broke-down-the-most-alarming-red-flag-of-love-is-blind-so-far\/","title":{"rendered":"A therapist just broke down the most alarming red flag of Love Is Blind so far"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"88\" data-end=\"526\">When it comes to Love Is Blind, people have become somewhat of a collective jury, quick to spot red flags, emotional manipulation, and anything that screams &#8216;run!&#8217; But this season, it\u2019s not just random folks weighing in.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"88\" data-end=\"526\">A therapist has now shared her professional opinion on what she believes is the biggest red flag to come out of <a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/2025\/10\/06\/love-is-blind-denvers-mike-just-revealed-the-real-reason-he-said-yes-to-doing-the-show\/\">Love Is Blind<\/a> season nine so far, and let\u2019s just say, it\u2019s something that\u2019s been brewing since the pods.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Her breakdown sheds light on some of the deeper emotional dynamics at play between one particular couple, and it seems like she&#8217;s saying something everyone&#8217;s thinking.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Therapist reacts to Love Is Blind&#8217;s &#8216;huge red flag&#8217;<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_35084\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-35084\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-35084\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2-1.png\" alt=\"love is blind red flag edmond kalybriah\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2-1.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2-1-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2-1-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/2-1-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-35084\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">As Love Is Blind season nine drops on Netflix, relationship counsellor Dr Pam Fullerton gives her take on Edmond and Kalybriah&#8217;s relationship.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">The pods are already an intense stage of the Love Is Blind process. The cast members have to open up to total strangers without even seeing them.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">During the Denver show&#8217;s first episodes, <a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/2025\/09\/11\/the-men-starring-on-the-next-season-of-love-is-blind-might-be-the-most-villainous-yet\/\">Edmond<\/a> shares with Kalybriah that he grew up in foster care.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">This is something therapist Dr Pam says is &#8220;heartbreaking to watch,&#8221; as Edmond describes the instability he felt during his childhood years.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">From kissing the floor to Edmond&#8217;s reaction to Kalybriah not being ready to sleep together, Dr Pam explains how all of it essentially comes back to trauma.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">She says: &#8220;For Edmond, his understanding of love and intimacy seems to have stopped developing at a much younger emotional age. He&#8217;s trying to give and receive love in ways that are meaningful to him, but they are rooted in a child-like understanding.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Dr Pam gives even more insight<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Therapist Reacts: Love is Blind&#039;s Most Alarming Red Flag\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jHx1wmswK9o?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">As <a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/2025\/10\/06\/it-turns-out-sparkle-megan-is-wearing-20k-worth-of-jewellery-on-her-wrist-on-love-is-blind\/\">Love Is Blind Denver<\/a> moves along, Kalybriah challenges Edmond with a theoretical scenario once they meet in person.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">She asks during a date what he&#8217;d do if they were both out and a man &#8220;grabbed her arm.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Edmond said he wouldn&#8217;t &#8220;confront&#8221; the guy, but would &#8220;call security.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Kalybriah then adds that the reaction would make her &#8220;angry&#8221; and that she wouldn&#8217;t feel protected.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Dr Pam says the whole conversation poses questions when it comes to Kalybriah&#8217;s understanding of what a &#8220;protector&#8221; is, and she considers how this chat may have triggered something in Edmond &#8211; if he doesn&#8217;t react correctly, maybe he won&#8217;t be loved?<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Proposal was another &#8216;red flag&#8217;<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_35083\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-35083\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-35083\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1.png\" alt=\"love is blind red flag edmond kalybriah\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-35083\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">Dr Pam describes Edmond&#8217;s proposal as &#8220;childlike&#8221; and replays his reaction to Kalybriah saying &#8216;yes&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">He shouts: &#8220;Thank you,&#8221; and she responds: &#8220;You&#8217;re gonna wear me out.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">That comment from Kalybriah is a &#8220;huge red flag,&#8221; according to Dr Pam. She says that it&#8217;s also a &#8220;blind spot,&#8221; adding: &#8220;What she doesn&#8217;t seem to realise it that Edmond&#8217;s strong and intense needs really will wear her out over time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"528\" data-end=\"697\">&#8220;Right now, she may interpret his intensity as passion or deep love, but the reality is that constantly having to meet someone else&#8217;s overwhelming needs and intensity can become exhausting in a relationship,&#8221; she adds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><i>For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\"><span class=\"s1\"><b><i>Reality Shrine<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/a><i>\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\"><span 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