{"id":33919,"date":"2025-09-24T12:15:12","date_gmt":"2025-09-24T11:15:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/?p=33919"},"modified":"2025-09-24T12:15:12","modified_gmt":"2025-09-24T11:15:12","slug":"spencer-matthews-and-jamie-laing-finally-break-silence-about-feud-in-emotional-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/09\/24\/spencer-matthews-and-jamie-laing-finally-break-silence-about-feud-in-emotional-conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"Spencer Matthews and Jamie Laing finally break silence about feud in emotional conversation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jamie Laing and Spencer Matthews have been friends for decades after meeting on <a href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/tag\/made-in-chelsea\/\">Made in Chelsea<\/a>, but <a href=\"https:\/\/thetab.com\/2025\/03\/26\/the-real-reason-behind-jamie-laing-and-spencer-matthews-fallout-and-where-they-stand-now\">their friendship fell apart earlier this year<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Reports of snubs came about after Spencer wasn&#8217;t present at Jamie&#8217;s wedding and didn&#8217;t seem to publicly support him during his ultramarathon.<\/p>\n<p>However, the pair have finally sat down together in an emotional podcast episode on <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/gb\/podcast\/great-company-with-jamie-laing\/id1735702250\">Great Company with Jamie Lang<\/a>, to finally hash it all out.<\/p>\n<h2>Jamie Laing reveals why he didn&#8217;t invite Spencer Matthews to the wedding<\/h2>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CrDCGrMN3y_\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CrDCGrMN3y_\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by Jamie Laing (@jamielaing)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>The first topic that was brought up was the wedding, which Spencer said he only found out he wasn&#8217;t invited to after seeing the pictures of the event in The Daily Mail.<\/p>\n<p>Jamie explained that one of the reasons he didn&#8217;t invite Spencer to his wedding was because Spencer didn&#8217;t want to come to his stag do, saying that because he missed that event he assumed he wasn&#8217;t fussed about going to the wedding.<\/p>\n<p>Spencer explained that stag do&#8217;s aren&#8217;t his thing, and &#8220;make whoever you&#8217;re marrying really uncomfortable&#8221; and the idea of &#8220;going to a foreign country with a bunch of lads&#8221; doesn&#8217;t sit right with him.<\/p>\n<p>He said that when groups of people get &#8220;very drunk&#8221; that people can make bad decisions, and as such he decided years ago that he wouldn&#8217;t go to them anymore.<\/p>\n<p>However he admitted he should have made more of an effort to tell Jaime that those were the reasons he didn&#8217;t want to go on the stag do, and not because he didn&#8217;t want to attend the wedding.<\/p>\n<h2>Jamie admitted that he thinks Spencer was at a &#8216;selfish&#8217; point in his life<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_33941\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-33941\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-33941\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121134.457.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121134.457.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121134.457-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121134.457-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121134.457-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-33941\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via YouTube<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Jamie responded that the &#8220;biggest mistake&#8221; he made was not communicating with Spencer about what happened and they really regretted what happened. The two clarified that the whole situation is &#8220;water under the bridge now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jamie added that he thinks Spencer was also in a &#8220;selfish&#8221; point in his life where he didn&#8217;t want to get in situations where alcohol was involved as he&#8217;d previously struggled with it in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately Spencer admitted he should have gone to the stag do for a couple nights, with Jamie then saying he&#8217;s also very sensitive to rejection which made the whole thing harder for him.<\/p>\n<h2>Spencer explained that he knows he&#8217;s &#8216;not a great friend&#8217; to Jamie<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_33942\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-33942\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-33942\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121111.509.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121111.509.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121111.509-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121111.509-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-09-24T121111.509-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-33942\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via YouTube<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Jamie then explained that he was frustrated that all of the coverage around his ultramarathon became dominated by their feud.<\/p>\n<p>He explained: &#8220;All these articles started coming out saying we weren&#8217;t friends and I think that was very upsetting for both of us.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Spencer added that the two actually &#8220;spoke a lot&#8221; during that time, with Jamie saying that whilst that was true they went through a period of &#8220;not being friendly&#8221; with each other.<\/p>\n<p>Spencer continued: &#8220;We could have gone for dinner and hashed out our issues, but we didn&#8217;t so then it feels sour. And then we spend days not talking anyway because in reality you run three business, I run two, life is different now.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m not a great friend anyway, there&#8217;s a few people I&#8217;m in contact with semi-regularly and that&#8217;s it. I admire your social life to be honest.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jamie asked: &#8220;But didn&#8217;t we go out for dinner? There were things we both wanted to say to each other.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Spencer responded: &#8220;We&#8217;ve hit the nail on the head with the confusion about the stag do, because I would not have understood that to be troubling to you in any way, wouldn&#8217;t have even crossed my mind that could be a potential issue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He explained that the first big rift was him having to learn through The Daily Mail that Jamie had had friends at his wedding and Spencer hadn&#8217;t been one of them.<\/p>\n<p>Spencer emotionally confesses that he thought the two were &#8220;best friends&#8221; at the time which made it hurt even more.<\/p>\n<p>He said that after that the two lost touch, with Jamie Laing agreeing that whilst that was true he felt as though Spencer Matthews deliberately trued to &#8220;separate himself&#8221; from him, which Spencer agreed with.<\/p>\n<h2>Jamie revealed he purposefully didn&#8217;t invite him to attend his ultramarathon as the two &#8216;weren&#8217;t friendly&#8217; 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