{"id":31104,"date":"2025-08-29T11:36:32","date_gmt":"2025-08-29T10:36:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/?p=31104"},"modified":"2025-08-29T11:36:32","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T10:36:32","slug":"bardha-reveals-the-real-reason-she-made-that-shocking-altar-decision-on-love-is-blind-uk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thetab.com\/realityshrine\/2025\/08\/29\/bardha-reveals-the-real-reason-she-made-that-shocking-altar-decision-on-love-is-blind-uk\/","title":{"rendered":"Bardha reveals the real reason she made *that* shocking altar decision on Love Is Blind UK"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Love Is Blind UK weddings are always dramatic, but one outcome I really didn&#8217;t see coming was Bardha turning down Jed at the altar.<\/p>\n<p>They seemed so settled with each other, and if anyone was going to say no during decision time, I honestly thought it was going to be Jed.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_31125\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31125\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-31125\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113306.577.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113306.577.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113306.577-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113306.577-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113306.577-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31125\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Her decision has led to a lot of backlash, with viewers assuming that she rejected him because she didn&#8217;t want everything being paid for her.<\/p>\n<p>However, Bardha has now broken her silence and revealed the unseen real reason she turned Jed down on Love Is Blind UK.<\/p>\n<p>She addressed a lot of comments and questions from Love Is Blind UK viewers to try and explain the reasoning her her decision, so let&#8217;s see what she said.<\/p>\n<p>She was asked: &#8220;It&#8217;s Kosavar culture for a man to pay so why is this a huge shock to the system for you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bardha replied: &#8220;Saying no at the altar had absolutely nothing to do with paying the bills or being taken care of. Literally zero per cent.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_31124\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31124\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-31124\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113317.310.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113317.310.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113317.310-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113317.310-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113317.310-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31124\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>She then responded to another question asking when she knew she was going to say no to Jed, explaining: &#8220;The second I was asked, it was mind over heart that made the decision for me in that moment, this is a legitimate marriage, it&#8217;s no joke.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As for whether she was &#8220;in love with Jed&#8221; or just &#8220;loved Jed&#8221; in the days leading up to the Love Is Blind UK weddings, Bardha confirmed she was &#8220;very much IN love.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>However, it seems there was lot that we didn&#8217;t get to see behind the scenes in their relationship as one person asked: &#8220;Did you see a different side to him in the days before wedding when cameras weren&#8217;t there?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She confirmed: &#8220;Completely, which was the only reason for my decision.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She added that alongside the &#8220;bickering&#8221; that &#8220;seeing a different side to someone can really burst your bubble and make you realise that six weeks is not enough to say yes to a lifelong marriage and not everyone has the same\/ heart intentions as you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_31123\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31123\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-31123 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113328.401.png\" alt=\"Love Blind UK Jed Bardha\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113328.401.png 1200w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113328.401-300x158.png 300w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113328.401-1024x538.png 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.realitytvshrine.com\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Ellie-New-Featured-Images-2025-08-29T113328.401-768x403.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31123\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Via Netflix<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>And if you were hoping to get a bit more juicy information about what really happened between Bharda and Jed during the Love Is Blind UK reunion, prepare to be disappointed.<\/p>\n<p>Bardha clarified that she won&#8217;t be talking about why she said no at the reunion, explaining: &#8220;No, I&#8217;ve chosen not to go into detail because it was personal between me and Jed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I also understand that comes with hard and unfair consequences for myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">For all the latest reality TV cast member news, scandals, gossip and updates \u2013 like\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/realitytvshrine.com\/\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Reality Shrine<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">\u00a0on\u00a0<\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\"><a class=\"c-link c-link--underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-stringify-link=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/realityshrineofficial?rdid=TzQu2kEd2cUqU4rD&amp;share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2F14zX5cKubf%2F#\" data-sk=\"tooltip_parent\">Facebook<\/a><\/i><i data-stringify-type=\"italic\">.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She revealed there was &#8216;only one&#8217; 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