The best places to cry on campus

Let’s face it. College is hard. Every week there are exams to study for, papers to write, and group projects to do. Sometimes it may feel like you just can’t catch a break.

As much as you want to go full out 2007 Britney Spears crazy, you know you lack the time and privacy to do so. Luckily, we’ve compiled a list of the best places to have your mini breakdowns (shaved head not required).

Your bed

If have a roommate, this probably isn’t the most private place to cry, but it will be the most comfortable.

Wrap yourself in a blanket like the burrito you just stress ate and let the tears flow. Also, you most likely know when your roommate is in class, so you can schedule your cry around that. Or maybe you just don’t care whether they’re in the room or not. That’s fine too.

In between SHS and CGS

Nestled between two of the ugliest buildings on campus is a lawn and table area. This is a perfect place to cry when the weather isn’t too bad. Not too many people hang around there so you have the option to either lie down in the grass or sit at a table with your head in your hands.

The possibilities are (almost) endless.

Occasionally, when the weather is really nice, classes will sit out there, so be mindful of this. If you cannot keep your sobs at an indoor voice level, this might not be the spot for you.

Bay State basement

If you’ve ever been to Rize, you’ve probably seen the tables across from the elevators at the bottom of the stairs. You also probably know that no one ever sits there.

It’s quiet, lowkey, and there are multiple tables and a bench to sit on. Not to mention, you can get a yummy snack at Rize or the dining hall when you are overcome with hunger. Eat your feelings.

Sleeper study room

My freshman year, I did a bit of crying in the sleeper study room. Not only was I crying because of stress, but the room itself can put you into a deep depression.

The furniture is ugly, it’s always too cold or too hot, and it’s full of other miserable people.

However, it’s a good cry spot because everyone else is usually too busy to notice what you’re doing. You can have yourself a good, quite cry and no one will even know. When you’re done crying, you might actually be able to get some work done, so this spot is very convenient.

FitRec

This place might not be the most obvious, but it’s a great option for all you fitfam people. You can cry literally anywhere in FitRec and people will either think your workout is crazy painful or you’re just sweating.

If you need a private moment, the third floor is the place to go. There are plenty of corners and mats to lay on while you’re rocking in fetal position. When you’re done, you can eat your feelings at Healthy Blends and not hate yourself for it.

Literally anywhere else

You don’t need an excuse or a hide out spot to cry on campus. It’s perfectly acceptable to cry walking down the street, in the library, or wherever else you see fit. People might stare at you, but does it really matter when you’re in an existential crisis?

Probably not, so don’t worry about it. Whatever helps you relieve stress is fine as long as it’s legal.

All jokes aside, if you’re really feeling overwhelmed it is important to take care of yourself. Don’t overcommit with extracurriculars, feel pressured to go out three nights a week, or forget to take a second to do things you enjoy. College is supposed to be the best four years of your life – not just a flood of tears.